Just recently, my observations about a friend was confirmed when our common friends met up and talked about stuff. There were issues and concerns that are alarming and our reputation and friendship are on the line.
Things were disclosed and we found out that our "friend" has been lying to us about each other. I used to go out with her but when I found out her real attitude, I backed out. She may be pretty or smart, but her attitude is so bad.
She is a self centered individual who creates lies to cover her own track. My friendship with some of our common friends were stained because they thought I was siding with her. Good thing we all had dinner and cleared things out. I started drifting from her for I think being too close to her might harm me in the long run.
Just today, I read her blog and obviously, I was part of it. The story was about guys she dated that are Mr. wrong for her. This made me ponder. Why do people blame others when they made mistakes? One big reason why most of these people do not improve because they think that they are so perfect. Point faults on other people is an excuse to see their own faults. In situations where we are hurt we done something wrong, let us look at the only thing that can be changed... ourselves.
We point to the government as the root of poverty, we point to our parents when we are financially struggling, we point to our ex-lovers whenever our relationship didn't work. In every situation that concerns us, there is one variable that we are in control of, that is ourself. Try to change yourself from the experience from the past and not from sour graping and projecting faults to other people
Things were disclosed and we found out that our "friend" has been lying to us about each other. I used to go out with her but when I found out her real attitude, I backed out. She may be pretty or smart, but her attitude is so bad.
She is a self centered individual who creates lies to cover her own track. My friendship with some of our common friends were stained because they thought I was siding with her. Good thing we all had dinner and cleared things out. I started drifting from her for I think being too close to her might harm me in the long run.
Just today, I read her blog and obviously, I was part of it. The story was about guys she dated that are Mr. wrong for her. This made me ponder. Why do people blame others when they made mistakes? One big reason why most of these people do not improve because they think that they are so perfect. Point faults on other people is an excuse to see their own faults. In situations where we are hurt we done something wrong, let us look at the only thing that can be changed... ourselves.
We point to the government as the root of poverty, we point to our parents when we are financially struggling, we point to our ex-lovers whenever our relationship didn't work. In every situation that concerns us, there is one variable that we are in control of, that is ourself. Try to change yourself from the experience from the past and not from sour graping and projecting faults to other people
